Life is to be lived with purpose. Fulfillment of that purpose requires strategy. The strategy I'm using is an Art. The Art of War.

Monday, October 20, 2008

My Reality

Am I correct in thinking a blog is similiar to being cast on a reality t.v. show? Bloggers show parts of their lives, either all of it or selected parts. In the past I wasn't too much of a reality fan, but reality t.v. is sucking me in.

I'm a fan of Real Housewives of Atlanta and I'm amazed at the vitriolic criticism these women are garnering. My goodness.....its totally amazing.

I hope they don't care. I don't think they make Atlanta (suburbs) look bad or women or women of color. If people think the any group of people are homogenous, then may the live happily in their vacuum. Do people watch Hills and think the show represents all young white folks? Black people never get a chance to just be. Someone always wants to be represented.

I wish Deshawn would open her mouth when she speaks. It is painful to watch her speak. I wonder if she has veneers and isn't comfortable with them.

I'm a fan of the Rachel Zoe Project. I remember her from the days she was accused of turning Nicole Richie and Lindsay Lohan into anorexics. I know she styled them into recognition.

I think The Hills is losing me. The show seems to have flatlined and until something different occurs I can't make myself watch.

I'm still watching The Game and that seems to have bitten the shark as well. I'll be glad when Tudors starts again.

The Game is just a horrible representation of Black athletes. One is a momma's boy, one has a white wife, the other one has become a 'baby daddy'. While I don't know any momma boy athletes I am very familiar with the other two. Are they making Ms. Brock Akil do this? This is the same madness that happened to Moesha.

I know I'd be crushed if the man I loved had a baby out there. I think I'm greedy and I'm just realizing this. I want 100% of my husband. I want us to exist in our own universe. I think it would be extremely difficult if there were pieces of him walking the earth, pieces that I had no part in creating. That would be like having a ladder up to out planet, instead of us just floating as we please.

The plan for Tuesday is Gymboree. The family is going to check out the 0-6 month class and see what its about. At the Baby Citizen of the World Class, one of the babies kept screaming. TR must have liked the noise because she's been blessing us with high pitched screams at various points throughout the day. When she does it, I call my mother and let her listen. My mother laughs and screams back.

I can't wait to go back to the Bay. We're spending a month up there and I plan to pull out pots, pans and wooden spoons, place TR in the kitchen with my mom and let them have fun.

4 comments:

Heart Drops said...

I enjoy watching the RHOA. I don't love it, but it's highly entertaining. But I LOVE The Game. Now that it's on on Friday nights, I stay home to watch before heading out to do anything. It's interesting, because I don't see The Game as a reflection of athletes, negative or positive. I see it more as a reflection of the reality of life in general, whether you're rich or poor, and that difficult times don't discriminate. I don't know what I would do if my boyfriend got someone pregnant. I'm leaning towards just letting that one go and trying my best to move on.

AMES said...

I thought the Game started out as giving a variety of characters. Derwin was the good one, Malik was the typical one-sorta, the other guy was family with a neurotic streak. They all had difficulties, all had good things. Same with the women.

Now the characters have sunk to their lowest levels. Akil did this with Girlfriends, when she had Joan's character lose all connection with who she'd spent years developing. I just wonder how does a writer recover the characters when she does that.

This is when I quit watching Moesha. When Frank, who had been the good father, announced he had a teenage son. It wasn't in the character developed for him to have a son and not be present in his life.

Catherine said...

I caught the RHOA for the first time yesterday and actually enjoyed it. I didn't care for DeShawn and her veneers. Everytime she spoke I rolled my eyes. Hopefully she JUST got new veneers and her mouth will open wider as the season continues.

I love Rachel Zoe's show. I wish she would eat more, but she seems passionate about what she does. She is also very likable.

Fergie said...

Every show you mentioned I watch and I love every minute of it. Yes, I am Fergie and I am a television-a-holic.